Education gave Bholi the confidence and courage to stand up against Bishamber's greed at her own wedding.
Bholi's parents accepted Bishamber's proposal because he was well-to-do and was not asking for dowry, despite being old and lame. They considered Bholi lucky, as her pock-marks and supposed lack of sense made her difficult to marry.
However, at the wedding, when Bishamber saw her pock-marks, he shamelessly demanded ₹5,000 from Ramlal, or he would leave. A humiliated Ramlal paid the money. Bholi had earlier agreed to the match for her parents' izzat, but when she saw Bishamber's greed and contempt, she refused to be sold. She flung the garland into the sacred fire and boldly declared, "I will not have such a mean, greedy and contemptible coward as my husband."
Remarkably, she spoke without any stammer — proof of her education's transformation. She calmly resolved to serve her parents and teach in the village school, showing true independence and self-respect.
Source: Bholi, Chapter 8 (First Flight — Supplementary Reader)
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